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I wrote an article on this for Psychology Today which may be of interest to readers here: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/good-thinking/201310/do-you-feel-imposter
Laura,
I've definitely experienced this. I've found that the best remedy is a good boss, or even a colleague. When you are full of self doubts, the right person can point out your pluses. A short conversation can work wonders. The fact that we are so rare and isolated makes insecurity harder to deal with.
Sounds like a good role for us old-timers! Work to encourage those around us.
Many women, from teen girls on up, feel insecure about their abilities. I don't see it in men, particularly young men, anywhere near as much. Sounds like something we need to change culturally.
Marian
Get to know a few other scientists in similar positions, and compare your achievements with theirs. Don't compare yourself to perfection; compare yourself to others with similar background and opportunities. As you get to know a few scientists who will allow you to see behind their "professional masks" you will find that they have insecurities also. None of us can know it all (and much of what we think we know, will soon be shown to be wrong). We all need to build "professional masks" and be selective on those we allow to access to our more complete identities. The real phonies are those who project (to others) and really believe (of themselves) that they know it all.
Hi FBP, thanks for the tip, and Erlinda you have a good idea but I don't know of specific ones for Latina and black women but perhaps one of the readers will and can help with information.
cheers,
Laura
Hi Laura,
I think when women are in science, where they are rare, it's even more likely they feel like imposters if they are Latina or black. Double marginalization, right? So getting some good tips from workshops on imposter syndrome management would be very helpful for them. Do you know of these specifically for women of color?
ENC
Hi Laura,
There are workshops on this, so if people want to they can work on their skills.
Women or men with this issue can use affirmations prepared in advance, for example. It's a negative repeater track in the brain, so you can make a positive repeater track to fight it.
I get it sometimes, especially at conferences in allied fields where I don't know many people and women are rare.
FBP